"...the love of God has been poured out within our hearts
through the Holy Spirit who was given to us."
God never intended for His love that has been poured out within us to immediately flow out to others without it first doing a work within us.
Allow His love to forgive you, cleanse you, heal you, restore you, and become a part of you.
Then you can love others as yourself and love your brothers and sisters in Christ as He has loved you.